so this is a short post...

i have alot to say, but i dont really have alot to say to alot of people right now. i also told myself that this is not the place that gets turned into a pure launching pad for my shit fanning. instead; its the place for my thoughts, that i gracesously allow you all to read. so... with that in mind...

1) stop asking me questions. heres the answer--- i dont know. all the questions and conversations ive had in the past 3 days have been about me and someone else. its not important whats going on. what is important, is that she and i are happy. what is important is you just let us be happy. the real truth about this? i havent even told her... [so im sorry you have to hear it this way]... but i couldnt stop thinking about it all today. i couldnt stop thinking about you, and whats going on, and me, and everything about it. and i liked it. but everytime i got to a point, i had to stop. i guess i never thought of it this seriously; but theres alot of people out there that just cant settle for 2 people wanting to be happy. they try and they try, just to stop it... to fuck it all up... to be an ass, to be annoying, to be aggrivating, to be trivial, to try and prevent it. the kicker was, today i was thinking about breaking it all off with her... when she and i talked about it, the answer was pretty clear; and now im starting to see why... and i agree with her more than ever about it.--- the problem with us, isnt us... its all of you. for that alone, i thought about telling her that it cant go on. im walking home, knowing shes asleep on my couch, waiting for me to come back; and all i can think about is how ive got to reconcile everything. i know that it cant go on forever.... i know some of you are just trying your god damndest to see this flop. some of you make up excuses and lie. some of you just decide to harass us. but i know at some point it either has to stop, or ill have to give in. at this point, i dont want to have to stop this; and tell her we cant see each other any longer. and im halfway home when i realize thats not what i want: when i realized thats not anyway to wake someone up. thats not anyway i want this to work. just all of you can leave well enough alone. its our business, not yours. if this fails and falls through; know that you all are ruining two people, not just me. if it were just me, id smile and tell you to try it. id welcome some more of your unfettered spite, blowing vile and anger at me because you hate me that much. but im not going to put her through all of this shit; but im not going to let you do that to her. she doesnt deserve your shit people. she doesnt deserve getting questioned, constantly asked and attended too, getting stares, having to deal with your lives when she has her own, or getting lectured for for living her own life. talk about me all you want. its never stopped you before. but leave her out of this.

2) so whats going on? heres the answer--- i do know, and i dont know. what i do know is; i had the most memorable weekend with another person, that i have ever had. i have never, ever expected anything like this to have ever happened in a million years. to sit and talk to someone for an hour is a feat. to do it for 8/9 hours is unheard of. to go back and do it all again the next fucking day is just crazy. then a third. then a fourth. you get the idea. i dont know what to say about it. i think it speaks for its self. and i dont know why it happened. i dont know how it all worked out. and im not even sure what im doing anymore. i just know that this has been an incredible week. and i know i really dont deserve any of it. i know i havent done anything that makes me any better than any other man on God's creation. God owes me nothing, and yet He puts something like this in motion. and how the hell am i supposed to react? i know in my heart, and in my mind, ive done nothing worthy of this. and i cant really get over that. i live my life. i live it alone if i have to. i say my prayers, but i dont ask for anything for myself. and here is just this awesome thing thats been put here... and i dont know how to handle it. i dont know how to believe it, i dont know how to say thankyou, and i dont know why i have been given some of the greatest experiences and memories, i think anyone could ask for. its like a sappy love story, but its real. i dont know what the hell love is. i dont even care. all i know is right now everything is good. each day is valuable and precious. and each day brings something new. its hard to look at it any other way. a week ago, i would have laughed if you said all this would happen to me. i would have laughed if someone said you'll find yourself just unable to stop spending time with her. i would have laughed if you said someone would even show interest in you; laughed so hard that id have never heard you say id be sitting with my arms around her at 6am on the second day, looking in her eyes as the sun comes up, trying to figure out how the hell i got there. but i did.

3) everyone else. so everyone else that can read this can just figure it out for themselves. i dont know anything; it takes men smarter than me to make sense out of a world like this; and theres no way i can hope to understand why everything has been the way it has. everyone else will think of it what they will, and thats the point of all this. people will continue to gossip; people will want to know whats going on, that have no right to. dont worry! stop. i can tell people next door, down the hall, downstairs, upstairs, outside, the next building, 4 buildings away.... are all talking about this; and i dont know why. some of you hate the idea of it. some of you love the idea of all this happening, and most of you just need to think about it, before you do anything. even those people that no longer speak to me, or associate with me, are going to think about this, and honestly i cant stop that. there are people ive known all my life, that dont know what to say when i tell them about this. i tell them, i dont even know. i tell them its a big a surprise as that first kiss. you never expect it to happen. you never know quite what to make of it. but you never want it to end in your mind. but from then on, you know its real. you know its something that did happen, because you spend all day thinking about it-- and i havent stopped yet.