ouch.
so i guessed wrong. yet again. cool girl from work? yep. shes got a boyfriend. i didnt really want to hear many more details about it. just felt generally embarrased about it. spent some time out behind work tonight watching the ducks. we have the airport then lots of greenspace until our property... and in that greenspace is a rentention pond... the ducks like to float around and quack. i sat out there and threw most of a baggie of doritos at them. just the darkness, the ducks and me. i guess i kinda feel dumb for asking... but i shouldnt. and i know that i shouldnt. but thats where i sat, feeling like a retard. watching the ducks huddle up together on the pond. i guess i dont understand why it all looks so easy. why its anything but easy for me. its not true at all that i cant find people. just that.. i guess those are the people that want me the least. so it feels. and i cant really explain that any more plainly that i do. ive always been tought that youre supposed to find this one great person to share your life with. and i watch it happen. and i thought it happened to me. and i watched it fall apart. and i tried. i tried to stop it, i tried harder to change what was going on. i guess to reiterate what i meant. and there i sit alone watching the ducks at night. sometimes i envy the ducks i suppose. ducks dont feel like jackasses for trying not to be lonely. they all just cuddle up together. the ducks dont feel useless for loving someone; sometimes i do. and i shouldnt. i shouldnt feel bad. but its hard to feel much. other than confused and alone. some nights are better than others. sometimes i envy the ducks.
Wednesday, October 08, 2003
Monday, October 06, 2003
it all means something.
A Lament.
"and so how am i supposed to feel" the first man cried out.
he was answered by a voice from the darkness, from within, yet from around,
' he who feels grief, feels pain. explore your pain, and learn why you grieve. '
"why? why must i torment myself for all of this" he said, as he stretched out his hands. his voice became erratic; "and what do i have to show for it? hmm? for all of this... this turmoil, this blood, this anger, this hostility. what is it i earn? i sought peace like a noble man, i fought for the justness that ought to be, i comfort those that suffer, and i choose to love out of devotion... and what the fuck does all that matter now?" he dropps his hands. "what is it worth? what are these, more than just words? are not my feelings, are not my triumphs valuable to some end? my acts, are they not worthy?"
' he who fears no wrongs, committs many; but dwells on none '
" so i was wrong then? all along, ALL ALONG, ive been wrong to do what ive done? to live the way i live, to fight for what i fight, to hold beliefs in confidence, and to be faithful in my heart to those that i love; that was wrong? '
' he who loves must loose. '
" and its a game? its rigged, its crooked. there is no equity, there is nothing of fairness... because in the end, You... YOU take away everything that is me. all that i have done, all that i will do, all that i know and believe. the things that i wish, the tears that ive shed, the love that ive left. You just take it... and i? i have nothing. now i am cast aside, now i am the undesired; i am that person that i wished to help."
' he that casts away the balast of the soul, will only be weighted by its absence'
" so it is. so it is my friend; it is that i feel heavy. that these matters of gravity and substance are those that provoke the turmoil, that have spoiled the man before you, and left him the wretched husk you see. is it because i took pride? is it because i desired? is that why i must be punished in this way? is that why you torment me; not with pikes and coals; but loathing and emptiness. the truest torture a man must endure is that which he illicits to himself. so then why must it continue? so what is the point? you control me. you lead me. you challenge me. yet you fail me, you chastize me, and you deny me."
' let him be punished in the way that no mortal may bring, let his punishment be mankind herself'
"so to the ends of the earth, am i to be this way? untl the dust of my bones yet again merges with the salt of the earth, i am to be plagued?" he falls. " those that i pleasured before, do they now rejoice for my death? will my death not be contained in their joy, their tears and their celebration, for they which i love... they will wish my doom sooner than they accept me?"
' . . . '
"and so it is. so i am to die. and my death will mark a time of great satisfaction for those around me. the unpleasantries of me, the view of me, all will be ridden from their minds, their very souls kept clean of my shame. and what do i take solace in, knowing my fate? how do i go about this life of pain and shit that You give to me, knowing that only my death... my total absence and impossibility of return, will command favor to those which i love most?"
' thus death is a stage of life, the living must die, and the lifeless live on. let not one man succomb to the desires of death, let him fast of it. yet have him drink earnestly of the life which he is given.'
" that everyone must treat me as a monster, and keep me from them... keep me from being again, a man. reduce me to that which you see with the eyes, and deny what the heart once held. that is Your game? You say be happy with this lot? let them all see me as pittiful, let them all neglect me? that is how you punish the good man... you deny him this duty to do good... then compell him embrace his wretched life? so then what am i for? what is the reason for keeping me around. CAN YOU NOT SHOW YOUR POWER AND KILL ME! slay me in my shoes, and let the blood of this foulest piece spoil the earth on which it congeals. make me the fucking spectacle of your show, show THEM the power You wield, by crushing me. me, a mortal man, that desired the good. death is the reward for it all. but only after my fate far worse than death, torment me, i say, torment me in all Your wrath... leave me the humbled one. let none return the love to me that i let flow to them. i deny that life you give me, if it must be the living death of my soul. this is Your EXTREME power? belittling one man. one mortal. one solitary man. because all is important. and their is no justice to Your actions. you deny the man his right to do good, to love, what more can you withold before he is no longer man, but a monster, filled with the contempt of those around him? what can you do to that monster that is me, that they havent done? and why shouldnt i wish for death?"
' for love is not lust, and truth is not verified. find then, ye mortal, that which eludes you. try as you must, but your days here are numbered, and the journey is much longer than you would live. but it is not the object of your desire, it is not the love you wish to make; it is the pursuit of, the loving for the sake of another, that i wish to be blessed. it is the struggle within that commands my adoration. it is your disavowment of what i show you that i punish'
and the man could only weep. it was sorrow that overcame his self. living did not matter to the man, if it meant living without that life where he could act, where he could do good, and where he could love. and he lie stretched out over the earth, until his tears stained crimson with blood, ceased.
A Lament.
"and so how am i supposed to feel" the first man cried out.
he was answered by a voice from the darkness, from within, yet from around,
' he who feels grief, feels pain. explore your pain, and learn why you grieve. '
"why? why must i torment myself for all of this" he said, as he stretched out his hands. his voice became erratic; "and what do i have to show for it? hmm? for all of this... this turmoil, this blood, this anger, this hostility. what is it i earn? i sought peace like a noble man, i fought for the justness that ought to be, i comfort those that suffer, and i choose to love out of devotion... and what the fuck does all that matter now?" he dropps his hands. "what is it worth? what are these, more than just words? are not my feelings, are not my triumphs valuable to some end? my acts, are they not worthy?"
' he who fears no wrongs, committs many; but dwells on none '
" so i was wrong then? all along, ALL ALONG, ive been wrong to do what ive done? to live the way i live, to fight for what i fight, to hold beliefs in confidence, and to be faithful in my heart to those that i love; that was wrong? '
' he who loves must loose. '
" and its a game? its rigged, its crooked. there is no equity, there is nothing of fairness... because in the end, You... YOU take away everything that is me. all that i have done, all that i will do, all that i know and believe. the things that i wish, the tears that ive shed, the love that ive left. You just take it... and i? i have nothing. now i am cast aside, now i am the undesired; i am that person that i wished to help."
' he that casts away the balast of the soul, will only be weighted by its absence'
" so it is. so it is my friend; it is that i feel heavy. that these matters of gravity and substance are those that provoke the turmoil, that have spoiled the man before you, and left him the wretched husk you see. is it because i took pride? is it because i desired? is that why i must be punished in this way? is that why you torment me; not with pikes and coals; but loathing and emptiness. the truest torture a man must endure is that which he illicits to himself. so then why must it continue? so what is the point? you control me. you lead me. you challenge me. yet you fail me, you chastize me, and you deny me."
' let him be punished in the way that no mortal may bring, let his punishment be mankind herself'
"so to the ends of the earth, am i to be this way? untl the dust of my bones yet again merges with the salt of the earth, i am to be plagued?" he falls. " those that i pleasured before, do they now rejoice for my death? will my death not be contained in their joy, their tears and their celebration, for they which i love... they will wish my doom sooner than they accept me?"
' . . . '
"and so it is. so i am to die. and my death will mark a time of great satisfaction for those around me. the unpleasantries of me, the view of me, all will be ridden from their minds, their very souls kept clean of my shame. and what do i take solace in, knowing my fate? how do i go about this life of pain and shit that You give to me, knowing that only my death... my total absence and impossibility of return, will command favor to those which i love most?"
' thus death is a stage of life, the living must die, and the lifeless live on. let not one man succomb to the desires of death, let him fast of it. yet have him drink earnestly of the life which he is given.'
" that everyone must treat me as a monster, and keep me from them... keep me from being again, a man. reduce me to that which you see with the eyes, and deny what the heart once held. that is Your game? You say be happy with this lot? let them all see me as pittiful, let them all neglect me? that is how you punish the good man... you deny him this duty to do good... then compell him embrace his wretched life? so then what am i for? what is the reason for keeping me around. CAN YOU NOT SHOW YOUR POWER AND KILL ME! slay me in my shoes, and let the blood of this foulest piece spoil the earth on which it congeals. make me the fucking spectacle of your show, show THEM the power You wield, by crushing me. me, a mortal man, that desired the good. death is the reward for it all. but only after my fate far worse than death, torment me, i say, torment me in all Your wrath... leave me the humbled one. let none return the love to me that i let flow to them. i deny that life you give me, if it must be the living death of my soul. this is Your EXTREME power? belittling one man. one mortal. one solitary man. because all is important. and their is no justice to Your actions. you deny the man his right to do good, to love, what more can you withold before he is no longer man, but a monster, filled with the contempt of those around him? what can you do to that monster that is me, that they havent done? and why shouldnt i wish for death?"
' for love is not lust, and truth is not verified. find then, ye mortal, that which eludes you. try as you must, but your days here are numbered, and the journey is much longer than you would live. but it is not the object of your desire, it is not the love you wish to make; it is the pursuit of, the loving for the sake of another, that i wish to be blessed. it is the struggle within that commands my adoration. it is your disavowment of what i show you that i punish'
and the man could only weep. it was sorrow that overcame his self. living did not matter to the man, if it meant living without that life where he could act, where he could do good, and where he could love. and he lie stretched out over the earth, until his tears stained crimson with blood, ceased.
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